A more excellent gift is charity, love in action, you know John 3:16, For God so loved( that’s love) that he gave(that’s charity) Noun-love, Verb-Charity. Their spelled different too! Don’t mess with the book that’s been used for English speaking people for over 400years. It’s up to date we are not! A pure heart is needed and no hypocrisy to act right on others behalf.
You are looking at folks to see what u can do for them not what u will get out of it.
You look beyond their faults, beyond their smell and beyond their pride and help them anyway. Study 1Corinthians chapter 13 to get a grasp on love in action.